Tuesday Rant: Don’t breathe my air.

I love Music Man. We’ve been together for 18 years. But I cannot work when he’s in the vicinity.

Like, right now, he’s sitting in the big, fluffy armchair in my office, just behind me. Even though he’s not talking to me (and little does he know what I’m blogging about today), he’s there. And it bugs me.

The problem for him is that if he’s even in the house, I can’t work. He might be two levels below, in the basement, but I can’t work. Knowing he’s there.

Breathing my air.

10 Responses to “Tuesday Rant: Don’t breathe my air.”
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  2. Patty says:

    I have a similar problem…if anyone is in the house I can’t clean…I guess it annoys me that I’m cleaning and they’re not.

  3. Dev says:

    I’m the same way, Colleen. I like my space. My biggest pet peeve is when someone tries to read over my shoulder. I come thisclose to going ballistic.

  4. Rachel says:

    Ooh, I hear you on this one. I am up to my ears in my second book, I’m sweating edits on the FIRST book, and whenever The Husband comes home, he always looks at me and says, “What are you looking at on the computer?” What do you think? UGH! He’s also a big fan of plopping down on the couch in my office just as I’m in the middle of stuff. Boys, I swear.

  5. Rinda says:

    My husband was off work for nearly a year once. I’d be writing and turn around and nearly crawl out of my skin because he’d be sitting in the chair on the other side of my desk… and I never heard him come in. I’d ask why he didn’t say anything and he’d answer that he didn’t want to bother me.

    Yet, he did this constantly.

  6. MissMeliss says:

    Ohhh, I SO hear you. My husband likes to come read in my writing room, because it’s pretty and airy.

    I can’t work knowing he’s there, and I resent when he does it, even if I’m not in there, because he has a couch in his OWN office in the house as well as, you know, and actual OFFICE at work.

    Maybe it’s an only-child thing, but I NEED my space.

  7. MK/Kati says:

    Well, Music Man is in for a surprise when he reads this! LOL!

    I don’t have a hubby, so I don’t sweat the in my space thing. In fact, I wouldn’t mind having my space invaded. At least once or twice. :D

  8. Ashley says:

    Just my own little you-are-in-my-space story. I was in the post office with my Dad, and this really old guy was practically breathing on my neck. Gross. I was so skeeved that I had to scoot a few steps closer to my Dad. But, the worse part, was that he stepped closer when I moved up. I felt his breath in the back of my neck–I kid you not.

    I just wanted to turn around and say, “Excuse me, but get the heck out of my bubble. You’re creeping me out.”

  9. Sarah Mac says:

    I will NOT excercise if there’s anyone in the house. I just can’t do it. I have this weird paranoia that they’re listening as I struggle through the workout regime.

    for writing, though, I can usually concentrate if I wear headphones & there’s nobody in the same room. silence drives me batty–I can’t write at all unless I’ve got music.

  10. Colleen says:

    Heheheh. Actually, MK/Kati, when I told MM what I blogged about, he said, “You haven’t blogged about that before?”

    That’s cuz I always tell him to leave, that he’s breathing my air. He’s not offended when I’m ushering him out the door–which is good.

    Ashley, that sounds ucky. Were you wearing some lovely perfume that the old guy wanted to smell?? LOL.

    Funny thing is…I can write in public places, with bunches of people (strangers) breathing my air, but not at home.

    Go figure.

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